I have officially been here one month, and it has flown, but it's also felt like eternity...the US feels so far away some days. However, with the blessings of technology I can always feel connected!
Just so you can put some faces with some names, here is a picture of the team.
From left to right, starting in the back, there's John Nguyen (Vietnamese, 25), John Paul Saialafau (Samoan, 17), Chris Mika Evans (Samoan, 17), Sharon Varney (Australian, 21), Me (American, 20, DUH!), Rachel Webster (English, 22), Leoni (team manager!), Jean Piere Salgado-Miranda (Peruvian, 19), and Ana Maka (Tongan, 22). You can see just HOW diverse our team is, as well as how crazy...and I have no idea what I'm doing in this picture.
In this other one, we're all in the same positions, but I'm the only one making a crazy face. Now does that surprise you?
Monday we spent the day having one-on-one conversations with director of the CYS program, just checking up on how we were doing individually and then as a group, and the rest of the day was spent doddling around working on a retreat we have for the French community. I'm actually really looking forward to that retreat, seeing as our family is French (8 times removed, haha) and I know a few words in French. Now I'm beginning to wish I hadn't dropped that French class last semester! O well... c'est la vie. :)
Tuesday brought more retreat work during the day, and that evening, during dinner, was the first thunderstorm I think I've witnessed here in Australia in all time I've spent here. Last semester I do remember it rained a lot, but I do not recall actual thunder and lightning. It was exciting, really, being a change and all. The weather hasn't been terribly consistent, but this was definitely shaking it up!
That night we had planned to have 'hood' nights, or brotherhood and sisterhood time - so the guys had some marvelous plan of going to the beach and swimming (lame) and the girls were going to walk along the ocean to Bondi, which is two beaches over from us, and get a coffee or something, but that became impossible with the state of the weather. and we had a good laugh because the boys had already walked down to the water when the storm broke, so they got a bit stuck in it, haha :D However, we decided we would instead go to nearest store and load up on things like chocolate, ice cream, soft drinks...you know, the usual, and just watch a movie or something. We parked across the road from the centre the store was in and as we were walking down the sidewalk to get there, I didn't see the jogger approaching on my left. I was just yip-yapping away, about nothing of course, and so as the jogger tried to get around me and my big mouth, it surprised me so much I screamed in her face. I don't know if I gave the poor lady a heart attack or not, but I certainly had a stomachache because I laughed for about 10 minutes! I think it was one of those "you had to be there" moments, but my goodness, it kept me laughing the rest of the night, along with a few other events.
It was Ana, Sharon, Rachel, and myself that went (those are the 4 girls on team...I haven't told you their names yet, have I?) I ended up buying a big gallon tub of cheap ice cream, cuz I figured we would all share it, but Ana didn't realize I had bought that, and so had also bought a few packages of ice cream bars. We'll be eating this for a week - not a problem! She cracked open the boxes as we were walking out to the van, and my Drumstick was fine, but as Ana and Sharon opened their ice cream bars, a little waterfall of melted ice cream flowed onto the floor of the shopping centre, leaving only the chocolate shell and the stick in the wrapper. Well Ana would have none of that, so she marched back to the store and they gave them a new box. Wow, thanks customer service! Then we got lost on the way home. Mind you, this is the area we live in. Let's just say the night was full of laughter.
Over the sea that night, I was extremely fascinated by the bursts of orange light that were appearing. I fascinated in the first place anyway because it was a storm over the ocean, something in my life I have never witnessed. I couldn’t help but stare into the blackness which had enveloped the Pacific as the clouds were illuminated with a flash and then gone again, sucked back into the dark sky. My fascination was coupled with awe and extreme attraction, but in my heart, I knew it was wrong. I knew that what I was seeing, while a beautiful phenomenon of nature, was not good, because out there, far away where those lightning bolts were brighter, the sea was turbulent and dangerous, and if anyone was out there, they must have a different sense of awe, that of fear. Something awesome to me was awful to them. I said a quick prayer for any ships out at sea. It's something I had never really thought about before!
Wednesday was further filled with work on retreats, but that night we went down to the cathedral to set up for an annual event called the Penecostal Consultation. Basically, it's a time when many of the youth and youth leaders gather with the Cardinal to discuss issues within the Church and provide feedback from the youth's perspective. The Cardinal listens and takes notes on all we have to say and then writes a letter to the youth for the year. It was a nice evening - we heard a talk, had dinner and discussed in small groups and got to hear from the Cardinal a bit. Also, the CYS team was showcased doing our JESUS chant - it's more of a rap, and two of the guys on the team learned it in their youth group, but now we're all doing it at schools, and for the Cardinal, apparently! haha the crowd loved it. I got to see most of my friends (always lovely!) and meet a few new people, and a few people who I'd heard about but never met. Overall, good night.
We had our only retreat of the week on Thursday, and it was so relaxing and fun! It was for 27 year 6 students, so by far the easiest retreat we have had and probably will have. I was privileged to lead it with another guy, and overall, the day ran really smoothly. While the weather outside brought torrential downpours throughout the day, the weather inside was sunny! haha We had a great time - the kids were really great!
Thursday evening, Rachel, Ana, and I went over to Notre Dame (which, if I haven't already told you, is a university with three campuses in Australia: 2 in Western Australia and 1 in Sydney. It's affiliated with the Notre Dame in Indiana! Cool, huh?). That night, we had the immense privilege of attending "spiritual pampering," an evening retreat for women, put on by the Domincan Sisters from Nasville, Tennessee! Yes, all the way here in Australia from Nashville! Three of the women from that order are here working on World Youth Day (WYD) and about 10 more from the order came out for a visit over the past two weeks, including their Mother Superior! Mother Ann Marie gave a talk about the dignity and vocation of women, based primarily on Pope John Paul II's encyclical by the same name, in Latin: Mulieris Dignitatem. We also had adoration, said the rosary, reconciliation was available, and then had evening prayers with the Sisters. It was such a beautiful night, and of course there was a light meal and tea and coffee with desserts, so it was satisfying both physically and spiritually. For me, the evening had special significance. I have been feeling a little homesick lately, and it is times like Thursday night that make me feel so much better. I sat and talked with many of the nuns and of course when they first met me, they detected that I didn't sound like the rest of the girls. "I'm from Indianapolis!" I would exclaim, and of course, that would spark the conversation. One nun I was speaking with, Sister Luke, was telling me that three nuns from their order are in Indianapolis teaching at Our Lady of Mount Carmel! What a small world this is, I thought. I was also very excited to tell the sisters that I met two of the women in their order while I was in Washington DC in January for the March for Life - they sat just in front of me at the Youth Rally! I couldn't believe all the coincidences - or should I say, all the Providence! It was such a lovely evening, and all three of us girls (Rachel, Ana, and myself) agreed it was well worth it!
Funny thing is, the next morning, one of the chaplians for the CYS team, Fr. Michael de Stoop (the man who convinced me I should do the team), had planned for us to take a trip out to "woop woop" (aka the boondocks) to visit the Carmelites, an enclosed order of nuns. It was quite an interesting contrast to visit those nuns, many of whom were in their 60s and up, who are a contemplative order, very soft spoken and humble ladies, when just the night before we had been in the presence of an apostolic order, the young, vibrant Dominican nuns from Nashville. We had a lovely visit with the Carmelites though, and they spoke to us on what their lives are like, and showed us many of the crafts they spend their days making. It is truly impressive what those women create. Rosaries, sculptures, scapulars, jewelry, pins, candles, knitted bags, hats, and scarves...beautiful works of Catholic art! We all enjoyed the day.
Friday night, most of the house left either to go home or go to a few WYD events, but Rachel and I stayed in and had a quiet night, watching High School Musical (Colleen, I thought of you!). We also tried, in vain, to shut off the water to the house. The past few days, the water in one of the toilets has been running, constantly, and the plumber, when he came out, couldn't fix the problem - he was quite dodgy. So Rachel, the household manager, made an executive decision that to salvage some water, we would shut it off at nights. However, we found that it should NOT be the girls' job to do this - we spent some time trying to figure out how to do it, and then some time trying to do it, and in the end, I think we might have made it worse...*sigh* Dad, I wish you could just pop over here and fix it for us!! haha
Saturday was a relaxing day as well - Rachel and I went downtown to sort out her plane ticket, which ended up being a pointless trip. She couldn't book it farther in advance than six months, so according to her current itinerary, she was leaving next Saturday. Not good. She hadn't changed it yet though because both of us as waiting to hear whether our visas will be extended or not. She went ahead and just picked a date to leave and decided that would be that, for now anyway, but was told it would be xx amount of $$ to change it (I dunno the exact amount), so she needed to go the HQ for the airlines to pay it. So off to downtown Sydney we went and one 45 minute bus ride later, we found it! However, the building was for lease. Right....we could tell the airlines used to be there, but had moved to some other unknown location. She called the number she had for her travel agency, which gave her the number for the airlines, and after a 5 minute conversation, was informed that no, she didn't need to pay anything, the first change was free, and sorry that you were sent to that building, it had moved to another place, yadda, yadda, and no worries, everything's sorted, thanks for your business. Well! A relief and yet a wasted trip. Not really though - it was a nice day, and we enjoyed lunch in the city and then headed back! Why not?
That night we went to a WYD event for the Maronite community, mostly made up of Lebanese Catholics, but some Syrians too. It was quite fun - I got to see many of my Lebanese friends from last semester, which I hadn't gotten to do yet, and got to see more of their culture. They taught me quite a bit last year, but it was so much fun hearing their music, trying some Lebanese food, and praying with them. The prayer was familiar, but had some distinctly Middle Eastern twists to it - very fascinating! Overall, it was quite a fun night. Then driving home, Ana and I got a little lost, and ended up in the thick of Sydney's Saturday night traffic, which was intensified by the Mardi Gras, which was "celebrated" yesterday. Apparently it is an event known around the world - every year, Sydney hosts a gay and lesbian parade and call it Mardi Gras, even though it doesn't even come close to coinciding with the actual Mardi Gras. You know, I am constantly amazed at the intense diversity of this city. It is quite an accepting culture! Huge homosexual parades, the Olympics, people from every corner of the world in residence, and yes, even the largest Catholic event on the planet, coming this July!!!!!!! I am getting so excited. They're pretty much closing the entire city for the event, which includes the Harbor Bridge, which in it's time of existence has only been closed one other time. This is bigger than big!!! More on all that later... :)
As the weather cools, my homesickness grows a bit and my awarness of the changing seasons at home versus here is heightened. I'm starting to realize that Easter this year will be spent in a time when nature is not blooming, but recoiling for the approaching winter. I have come from winter in time to greet winter here, and of course, since my favorite season is summer, I'm feeling a bit jipped. Sydney has just had it's coldest summer in several years, and only three times in all of history has the temperature not topped 31C, or 87F. How lucky that I am here to experience this record! Just like last winter was the coldest winter Sydney had seen, and I was here for that as well! How grand...
As hard as it is to grasp the concept of cold in normally beautifully warm months, I am slightly consoled by the fact that, while I am half a world away from it, baseball is beginning, whether it's spring here or not!! You can bet that my homepage will now be set to mlb.com - GO CUBS!!!!!!
sorry for the length - bravo and thank you if you're still reading!!
Until I write again, may God bless you!